Response to a question asked by a single man:
Dudes ... Cause I don't have time to go into the whole conversation or the questions asked; but, here you go.
EVERY decent, good, great WOMAN, even the "plain jane" wants a MAN who will treat her respectfully, honor her, adore her, show admiration, affinity, and affection towards her, treats her to nice things, takes her nice places, expose her to great friends and opportunities, and often times she wants to hear how you really feel although you are showing her and truthfully, she should want to hear if she is lacking in any area so that she can come up to the place she needs to be. Pin that right there for a minute. Without being too churchy or spiritual, these are just baseline attributes okay. Now, if you are doing these things and even more and she is still acting "silly" dude, TURN THE LIGHT ON, it's not that she doesn't want these things because truly she does, SHE JUST DON'T WANT THEM FROM YOU! YOU ARE NOT HER FIRST CHOICE. There you have it. Don't let pride, hate, malice, resentment, hurt, anger and the likes settle in ... Just be honest with her and tell her, I'm not the person for you and be out. bohemian style gowns for formal party show
Now LADIES, If this is YOU and you know this is what you are doing and how you feel; release that man and let him go so he can be FREE, HEALED, and DELIVERED for the RIGHT WOMAN that will enjoy All of this and much more ... Because THAT WOMAN will ADD to THIS kind of brother, TRUST THAT!
We have become very selfish in relationships and this is why there are so many UNHAPPY people together [but separate] in their thinking, doing, spending, friendships .... Let folks GO! IF you aren't willing to sacrifice yourself and your desires (sometimes) YOU ARE NOT READY TO BE JOINED WITH ANYONE ELSE. STAY SINGLE!